Our journey in the Autism Spectrum

[Ed. Note: A little back-story first in case you may be unfamiliar with this tradition]

I grew up celebrating St. Nicholas Day. On December 5th we would put our stockings or shoes out for St. Nicholas to fill. If we had been good we would wake on December 6th to find goodies in our stockings and sometimes an occasional small package or two nearby. (Our stockings are not filled on Christmas day). We were warned that if we were not good, we might find coal or sticks (or a “switch”). I vaguely remember an older neighbor-friend of my grandma’s and great aunts’ talk of Krampus  or Knecht Ruprecht  a couple of times when I was very young and  I remember my grandma “shushing” her when he was mentioned. I don’t think she wanted to talk of such “evil” for fear of scaring me. (I think they must have combined the two figures over time or maybe my very young brain did that considering I was probably only 3 or 4 at the time?) I know that we only celebrated St. Nick in our house and there was no other talk of the darker companions.

Oh, I do so miss my grandmother and her stories with German names and phrases and songs thrown in and she and my great-aunt singing Christmas Carols in German. I loved to hear her stories growing up and the folklore that were certainly carried over with my ancestors from the “Old Country”. I guess that is why I keep this tradition with my kids; even though it is one tradition that my husband just doesn’t “get”. 

Anyway, pardon my nostalgic look back at St. Nick’s past…

So, today is December 6th and my kiddos woke to a very modern and authentically Rabinowitz-style St. Nicholas Day. Molly was out the door at 6:20am with Grant for jazz rehearsal, probably giving  her stocking only a quick glance. Lucy, still being sick, didn’t even think about her stocking until much later. The morning continued with the loud and somewhat chaotic dance routine of getting Henry to the breakfast table.

And this is where the “miracle” finally happens. (I know, right? Thanks for hanging in there!) As Henry heads into the kitchen for breakfast he realizes their stockings have been filled and there are gifts for each of them.

Then I asked a very big favor from him, ” Henry, since Molly and Daddy had to leave early and Lucy is still sleeping and not feeling well, do you think you can wait until after school and we are all together to see what St. Nick brought you?” I braced myself waiting for an outburst followed by whining and fighting…

“Okay. After school? With Molly and Lucy? Okaaaay.” Henry replied slightly forlorn.

Then he was ready for breakfast and off to finish getting dressed for school. No fuss. No muss. AMAZING!!!! To quote Grant when I relayed the story to him, “That is a whole lot of un-medicated HUGE!” (Henry hadn’t gotten his ADHD medicine yet. lol!)

Henry gave the lion sticking out of his stocking a pat on the head later as we went out the front door to catch the bus and he was off. Wow! (again!) Then “miracle” #2, Lucy finally woke up to see the stockings and SHE was also willing to wait until her older siblings got home. Which is pretty tough considering she is home sick today! (more amazement!)

So, this afternoon, the kids will celebrate St. Nick together. Or at least the goodies he brings. I will celebrate St. Nick for kicking Krampus’ (autism) butt and look forward to many more small (but oh so HUGE) gifts my son and daughters give to me! And I hope some day the kids will understand the stories and traditions of the holidays and see them to be a gift in themselves.

St. Nicholas Day~ Rabinowitz Style (with our new Elf Louie supervising)

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Comments on: "It’s A St. Nick Miracle Rabinowitz-Style" (3)

  1. Oh that is so amazing I want to know how it all went now!!!!

  2. It sounds like YOU got a wonderful St. Nicholas Day present too!!!!! Thank you for posting this story!!!!!

    • We had a nice afternoon! Big Daddy Chameleon came home early when the kids got home from school so he could share in the moment (knowing they weren’t going to wait until the time he usually gets home!) and it was fun. The kids were excited to get their little gifts! 😀

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